Every child has right legal right with little duties during
upbringing. Parents has neglected the fact that children are the future glory
of the society and should endeavor to help them maximize their potential at the
appropriate age, which when neglected entails in their career as well as
marriage. Preparation is the bed rock and foundation for greatness.
Child’s Education is the price one pays in bringing up a
child. A child’s upbringing is the most sensitive and active part of a family
destiny. So many families are damned for neglecting this fact while others are
well blossomed for acknowledging it. Now,
do you have a child or children at home? What are their aspirations? Who are
their friends? What is the State of their health? Have you accessed their Intelligent
Quotient (IQ) as well as academic background? And psychologically, what are
their daily funs and dislikes? If one can answer these questions as
parents, then you are fit for your family course.
Many have neglected these issues and blaming “had I known in the near future”. A
child that lacks discipline is vulnerable to indifference and danger in the
society because he/she must tend to break codes of conduct for statutory law in
the society. We have more of these experiences in United State of America years
back till date. Some citizens are drug addict because of lack of discipline. A
society without discipline is a bloody one. While some are drug addicts others
are not, what makes the difference? Discipline, when you call child upbringing a
course, you will be among the champion as specified in the HOLY BIBLE:
PSALM 112:1-9
(1) “Happy is the man who fear Jehovah, who
takes great pleasure In his commandments
(2)
His descendants will be mighty in the earth.
And the generation of the upright will be
Bless.
(3) Wealth and riches are in his house. And his
righteousness continues forever.”
The man in quote did not neglect his family, he gave them the
best he has in him, because it is from what you have as parents that you can
offer as well as deposit in your children. Plan to train up a child the way he
should go and you will never end up in shame at last.
Also note that the environmental factor is very crucial in
bringing up a child, psychologically take charge of the child’s environment and
watch the effect on that child because this is also the among the most
sensitive area in bringing up a child. Expose your child early to
responsibilities and children association as this will help to curb mental retardation known as “Imbecile”. The recent research carried
shows that growing children restricted to their parents alone has certain level
of imbecile. Free your child to interact and play with others children as this
will help to sharpen his mind, ideas and reasoning. No child is born imbecile and a child can only be
imbecile by some certain factors which may cause depression like excessive
harsh treatment. Hard work does not kill a child provided he is feeding fine
rather it helps him/her to adapt to the competitive world or system.
Finally do not neglect the Education of a child, it tells in
his/her future. Peace to our children, parents and family at large as we step
in and make an effective impart toward child upbringing. A culminated effort
towards a child upbringing is the anti distress and corruption to the society.
ONYIA EMEKA HARFORD
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+2348186388641
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